Men, have you ever thought of buying sexy lingerie for your wife, partner or girlfriend? If so, I guess you are like many men and wanted to know how to navigate this minefield, right?
In general, choosing something sexy does not always mean excessively lacy. What this means is that, smooth fabrics such as silk and satin will make her feel luxurious and will look better under blouses and fitted tops.
Frankly, men may not know that lingerie can actually bring to the mind a whole lot of ideas, as some are simply comforting whereas others can make our life a little more interesting, exciting and perhaps passionate. For example, if you like to see your lover in different avatars every time, or dress your lover as a baby doll or as a sexy nurse, then baby doll or fantasy lingerie which contains stunning color range, is something you may want to consider. On the same note, you will find more costumes that will brighten up your imagination too.
Well, as far as famous and sought after sexy lingerie is concerned, it basically boils down to: Sheer lingerie, G-Strings-Thongs, Lace Lingerie, Corsets and Baby doll or Fantasy lingerie.
Worries about the size? Never, as you will find plus size lingerie in all the above famous and those sought after lingerie. Confused on which type of sexy lingerie to buy? The best is don’t be afraid to ask, in fact, women ask many questions when come to buy sexy lingerie, but men usually tend to ask even more, to what I know!
Men and Sexy Lingerie
Do you fall in love too quickly?
Do you fall in love too quickly? Is it wise? Can the intensity be sustainable for a long run relationship?
According to relationship counselor, Allegra Tripodi, “Rushing a relationship can cause lots of problems. For example, it can prompt us to make bad decisions, misread signal and exaggerate feelings. It can also let us give more than we receive and at the same time create an impression that we are desperate when in fact we are just keen. In short and in the long run, taking a romance too fast will usually result in us being let down, used or mistreated and ending up nursing a broken heart.”
To make sure we don’t get burned, we will need to put the brakes on our emotions. Here are the experts’ advices on how to put the breaks on our emotions:
- Don't tell him or her you love him or her too soon.
- Go for a few days without calling him or her, just to see if he or she calls you.
- Don't have sex with him or her the first time you're alone, hold off as long as possible and explain to him or her: "I only like to get intimate when I'm sure I'm with someone I can really trust."
- Get your hands off him or her, at least at first. Kiss him or her if you feel like it but don't overwhelm him or her with kisses, if not he or she will feel like he or she is dating an octopus!
- If you feel the urge to gush in those first weeks of dating say something less intense like, "I'm really enjoying getting to know you better."
- Never contact him or her by phone, email or SMS more than once in a day, unless you're making plans for the night that require a little to and fro.
- Every time he or she rings you, wait at least half an hour to call him or her back.
- If he or she wants to see you every night of the week, try to pull back a little and have some space for yourself, explain that you'd love to be with him or her, but you need to catch up with a close friend, do some study or need to work overtime for office work.
- Don't take him or her to meet your family until you've been dating for at least three months.
The point is: if the one you like is as great as you think and as interested as you look for, then he or she is not going anywhere. In short, if he or she likes you, he or she will want to get to know you better and encourage the relationship to develop and grow. Therefore, we should not rush ourselves, i.e. fall in love too quickly, but enjoy the wonderful, heady process of getting to know each other.
Don’t you think we have plenty of time for saying ‘I love you’ and ‘I do’ down the track for a better body, mind and spirit and soul?
An Actor’s Philosophy on Marriage?
Do you agree with me that in order to maintain the commitment known as marriage, a certain amount of love must be present and that when we marry, we are in a bonded spiritual partnership which must be respected as much as possible as marriage is not a light promise, and to me it is the promise to our soul that will lead to a better mind body spirit.
Well, to me, actor Anthony LaPaglia aged 49 (if not mistaken), seems to know a thing or two about how to have a happy marriage. I think you will agree with me not many actors or stars will be like him, from those divorce cases that we often came across.
This “Without a Trace” star had once said, “The thing about marriage is that it requires work from both parties. There is a romantic notion that you fall in love and it all just works magically. Now, that is true to some degree but then there will come to the point in the relationship where it is difficult, and those are the times where you put to test and you have to make the decision that you want to work on it.”
I believe his marriage philosophy has worked wondered for him for his ten years of marriage to his actress wife, Gia Carides and they have a lovely 5 year-old daughter, Bridget.
What is your philosophy of marriage?
Happy journey to a better body, mind and spirit and soul!
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Timeline Checklist to a Great Wedding
Do you agree that meeting that someone special in our life, getting engaged and all ready for the “horse and carriage” is one of the most memorable, exciting moments in our life to complement for a complete mind body spirit and soul richness?
Well, after the initial few weeks of adrenaline rush, fun, bliss and blush, and especially during the post proposal stage, it is time to settle down and get straight ahead to the preparations and plans for the big day, right?
Below is a timeline checklist which you may want to take for reference:
12 months before
- Choose a wedding date.
- Announce your engagement to family and friends and plan an engagement party (do remember to work on your budget though, if any).
- Begin a rough guest list and compile current addresses.
- Decide on who you would like to have as your attendants, which shall include your best man and maid of honor.
- Choose a location and make the reservations for the ceremony and reception venues accordingly.
- Begin shopping for your wedding gown and bridesmaids dresses.
- Scout for photographer and/or videographer, caterer and florist.
- Find someone who will perform your ceremony, as well as choose and book wedding band, DJ, musicians, etc.
- Select and order your wedding invitations, envelopes, those thank you cards and research wedding cake from local bakeries for ideas.
- Plan and book your honeymoon where appropriate, and make sure the necessary travel documents such as passports and visas are in order.
- Mail or deliver wedding invitations.
- Choose your hair and make-up stylist and schedule a trial for both, if possible. Not to forget to book appointments to have your hair, make-up and nails done for your wedding day.
- Create a seating chart for reception and make place cards too.
- Discuss with your caterer for a final guest count and meet with your photographer and/or videographer and florist to finalize the details.
- Make sure the wedding bands fit well with your wedding.
- Schedule a final dress fitting.
- You may get your rehearsal dinner toasts prepared.
- Final checks for whatever is necessary.
- Pick up your wedding gown.
- Pack for your honeymoon and reconfirm your travel arrangements.
- Have your hen’s night out!
The day before
Take thing easy and attend the hair appointment prior to the rehearsal dinner and to enjoy yourself then.
On the Wedding Day
- Wake up early and eat a healthy breakfast, remember our body and mind need energy for the big day ahead!
- Enjoy as it is finally here and everything will be wonderful….
Cheers!
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