Can shoes help to attract women for love, romance and relationship?

Hi guys, do you know that shoes are very important to single women? Do some research or ask around, you will know that women spend a lot of time shopping for them, talking about them, and of course spend a lot of time trying to figure out which shoes to wear with each outfit. In short, they are obsessed with shoes, right? (Just look in their closets and I'm sure you will find varieties of shoes for every occasion, if not tons of shoes!)

Will it present a good opportunity for guys? The answer is definitely a “Yes.” This is simply because they will judge you by the shoes you wear and how they look in appearance.

For example, if a guy wears scuffed, unpolished, or out of date shoes, he is going to make a bad impression and that's the last thing he wants to do. Well, we may not know that part of the art of attracting women for love, romance, and a potential relationship is making a good impression on them.
On the other hand, if a guy wants to really turn women off, the best advice is to wear dirty sneakers or perhaps to wear old unsightly golf shoes on dates. Sound not a bad idea, right?

Try it, you will see the effects on how shoes can help (or otherwise) to attract women for love, romance, and relationship!

Ever Think of Feng Shui Your Handbag?

You are likely to ask me what is feng shui first, right? Feng shui is actually an ancient Chinese system of belief that utilize the Laws of both heaven (astronomy) and earth (geography) to help one improve life by receiving positive Qi, in short if you have good feng shui, you have everything good in life, i.e. love, money, wealth, success, happiness, health and so on.

So is bad feng shui in you handbag blocking you for a better mind body spirit and soul, i.e. your success in life?

Perhaps, you want to follow me to find out by just answering some simple questions. After answering those questions you should refer to the points that you have scored as well as the result interpretation on how is your handbag feng shui for a better mind body spirit and soul!

1.	The outside of your handbag looks: Battle-worn and way past its expiry date. A little weary. Well cared for, trim or new.
2.	How do you feel about your handbag? I love it! Indifferent. Groan and I hate it. I think it is OK.
3.	When you get home, your handbag... Is tossed wherever you happen to find space. Goes in its regular special spot.
4.	The inside of your handbag looks... Like an explosion in a junk room. Immaculate. Fairly tidy.
5.	Your handbag... Weighs kilos and is a chiropractor's nightmare. Feels light and is easy to carry. Is of average weight.
6.	Which best describes the color of your handbag? Black, red or plum. Brown, grey or white. Animal print (snake-skin, for example). Cream, green, yellow, blue, purple or orange.
7.	The shape of your handbag most closely resembles a... Square or rectangle. Heart or circle. Triangle. Formless and squishy and is an indefinite design.
8.	Your handbag... Enjoys regular holidays, i.e. you swap them around. Resembles a tired soldier on daily duty.
9.	Your handbag is made mostly from... Natural material such as leather, denim, cotton, raffia, string or wool. Synthetic material. Metal.

Scoring:

1. a – 0, b – 1, c – 3
2. a – 4, b – 1, c – 0, d – 2
3. a – 0, b – 2
4. a – 0, b – 3, c – 2
5. a – 0, b – 3, c – 1
6. a – 4, b – 0, c – 2, d – 1
7. a – 3, b – 4, c – 0, d -2
8. a – 2, b – 1
9. a – 4, b – 0, c – 2

Up to 11: Bad Feng Shui
It is time for you to let the cat out of your bag and confess that your handbag vibes are frightful. You should invest in a new handbag as it would not cost you a lot though!

12 – 16: Room to improve
It shows that your handbag is your everyday companion and it is shabby and tired. It is good to wise up on your handbag feng shui and tidy it up.

17 – 24: OK Feng Shui
Your handbag is a worthy friend and it contributes good vibes to your immediate energy field.

25 – 29: Fab Feng Shui
Congratulate! Your handbag radiates plenty of positive vibes and you are on your way to a better mind body spirit and soul!

Large and Small Women

Do you agree that few women have perfect bodies and most are sensitive about their shortcomings, be it real or imagined?

It is a fact that no one has the Barbie shape that we are often led to believe is "Perfect". What that means is that we should not let our body shapes and sizes to overwhelm our mind body spirit and soul, until we can’t get on with our life, instead we have to learn what are the best options for us. Frankly, there are ways to flatter your body shape and those ways may differ from someone else's but that doesn't mean that your body shape is “not attractive”, just that we are all different.

Generally, women who are not average in size face challenges in finding clothes to look good and feel good. Depending on which country the women are, tall women tend to do well in Germany but in France the tall and the heavy ones have nowhere to shop, while America is a heaven for women of all shapes and sizes.

If you are a woman of large size, wearing your seasonal palette can help on all counts, as it helps in bringing out the best in you and focus attention to your face. Be bold in your colour choices for blouses, jackets and scarves but opt for neutral and deeper tones for skirt and trousers.

Do remember that simplicity in style is most effective for you and try to keep the cut of your clothes loose and elegant. Attractive patterns should be reserved for your blouses or scarves and avoid distinguishable patterns in jackets and skirts and always choose plain, quality fabrics in your best colours. You may want to use striking accessories like brooches or earrings draped over one shoulder.

If you are a woman of small size, try to use the deepest and the boldest colours in your seasonal palette, as it helps to project your presence and strength, in short you will look more substantial and positive. Using one colour or monochromatic blend of one colour can actually help to create an illusion of greater height. Remember, neutral colours in small patterns such as pinstripes, houndstooth are preferable to florals or anything too feminine.

Trousers suits often work well on petite women in projecting confidence without threatening the men. A modest heel will enhance your natural stature but not ridiculously high heels, which will make you, look comical and risk making a fool of yourself if you fall!

In short, for large size women, you should worry less about being at the cutting edge of fashion, instead focus on looking appropriate, elegant and timeless, as the colour, quality and fit of your clothes are more important than the style. For small size women, remember always show your legs, as long skirts, no matter how chic, current and comfortable, will simply swamp you!

Simply put and thank goodness we are all different otherwise things sure would be boring, don’t you agree?

Enjoy and have a healthy mind body spirit and soul!

How to Walk in High Heels – Tips and Don'ts

Wanted to look sexy, slimmer and appealing? Believe me or not, if you ask any designer what top models are always most concerned about, likely they'll tell you that it is the shoes, especially high heels shoes! With a little bit of practising, you can become one in no time!

For those women who want to look fashionable and trendy, they will realize that despite a vast collection of outfits to match every special occasion, it may still look incomplete without a pair of desirable high heels shoes.

Some said women’s shoes have the power to transform a woman from being simple looking to extremely appealing among the crowd, more so for “Black” high heel shoes as they are the most popular, the sexiest, the most eye catching that most men prefer over all other shoes! What do you think?

However, walking in high heels is not a natural talent but a learned skill, perfected by practice and discipline. What follows are tips and don'ts that can give you the support to stride in style.

The Tips

1. Stand Tall – Practice standing in your heels in front of a full-length mirror. When you feel comfortable, turn slightly to each side. As heels pitch weight forward, so keep your shoulders back and your head up.
2. Take Baby Steps – Best to try this first on a hard floor that is not too slick. Do note that when you are in heels, the normal heel-to-toe motion can snap your heel or twist your ankle. So keep your legs straight and as close together as possible. Point your feet as straight in front of you as you can, and go down evenly on the ball of the foot and heel.
3. Watch Your Weight – When walking, you will shift your weight onto the foot in front. Spread your toes in the shoe slightly to help distribute the weight onto the ball of the foot.
4. Work Your Way Up – If you have been confined to flats, you may want to consider working your way up to the heel height you would like to wear. Always start with a lower heel or a chunkier heel, and not a skinny stiletto. For a confident walk, remember to let your hips swing in small, sideways and figure-eight motions.
5. Step Up – When climbing stairs, make sure both sole and heel land together firmly on each step. While descending stairs, only the sole of the shoe needs to be planted firmly on each step, and use the rail if it is available.

The Don'ts

1. Always make sure you get well-fitting shoes. Ill-fitting shoes can cause serious long term damage to your feet. What followed is you will have pain over your mid foot, heel, ankle, knee, hip, lower, mid and upper back and worse still it leads to headaches.
2. No matter how nice your heels are, don't wear them all the time. Wearing heels too often can result in poor foot health. Take a break, for example, every hour or two, excuse yourself and give you feet a chance to unwind. Let say, when you're in the bathroom, take off those heels, and perhaps give your feet a massage.
3. If your shoes have straps, make sure they're on tightly before you start walking.
4. As for driving, try to avoid driving in high heels as you don't have quite as much control over the car, further you can damage the back of your shoe. Always, keep an extra pair of flats in your car, or consider driving barefoot.
5. When in doubt whether to walk on ice, grass, sand, mud, slush, gravel and grated surfaces, you should take off your heels and carry them across such questionable surfaces in bare feet.

Again, learning to walk in high heels is mostly a matter of practice. Do remember to always takes extra caution to keep your balance and place the least amount of strain on your muscles. Well, think you are able to walk high towards a better body, mind and spirit and soul, right?

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How to choose Ties that project your personality

For some men, tie is something that they wear daily to tell the world whether they are on their way up, have arrived or if they are on their way out.

A man must choose his own ties, but should consult the shop personnel selling ties if he is not sure how to combine colors and patterns. Imagine if you wear someone else’s choice around your neck all day – like that of the wonderful woman in your life, you are projecting personality that isn’t yours.

For business purpose, choose ties of good quality silk that can hold a knot, but note that this does not mean that it has to be a thick silk tie, rather the construction of the tie. The lining should be of good quality wool, and the silk itself should have been cut on the bias to allow it to lie flat and hang straight. Before buying, check to see by hanging it by the narrow end to see if it falls straight. If it doesn’t, and curls around instead, it tells you that the tie is poorly constructed, reject it.

Basically, the best acknowledged ties are those handmade in Italy. How to tell whether a tie is handmade? Check by the discreet loop of thread hanging just inside the narrow end of the tie, when pull it gently, you will see it bunch up, proving that it has been hand sewn, simple right?

Do note that the width of a tie should balance with the lapels of your suit, and with your build both in size and in patterns. Generally, men who are slightly build should avoid large patterns, i.e. Windsor knots and wider ties. On the other hand, large men require boldness in patterns, knot and width. The ideal knot for most business suit and shirt collars is the half-Windsor knot.

Bow ties are for men to wear with their dinner jacket but can be worn with a smashing waistcoat for social occasions where they don’t need to be too formal. Well men, now you are at your peak to a better body, mind and spirit and soul, right?